New Here? Dear Wendy is a relationship advice blog. You can read about me hereperuse the archives here and read popular posts. You can also follow along on Facebook and Instagram. Thanks for visiting! The problem with us is that there is a big income discrepancy — I make more ebough double his salary. He has had to work a second job off and on throughout our relationship but that also takes a toll on how much free time he has he works most weekends. To add to this, we are doing a mony distance relationship and so there are plane tickets that need to be bought whenever we want to see each other and of course I boyfrienx up flying there much more .